Happy Birthday Sanjay Dutt: Here's A Compilation Of The Best Answers By The Star From His Interviews All These Years
On the occasion of Sanjay Dutt's birthday, SpotboyE brings to you a list of the best and the kindest answers given by the actor to questions asked by Subhash K Jha. Read on!
Sanjay Dutt turns a year older today (July 29). And on this happy occasion, Subhash K Jha has compiled a list of the best answers given by the actor to questions asked by him all these years. Through these questions and answers, one can easily decipher how badly Sanjay Dutt had been affected by the court proceedings and legal tussles in his life, and how Maanyata Dutt made his life a lot better and way happier.
Q: Tell me about your most memorable birthday.
A: Theyāve all been memorable in their own way, even the ones that came in my worst days. I donāt like a big birthday bash. I just want my loved ones on my birthday. Itās tough to remember my past. But I want to move on.
Q: Itās very difficult to imagine Sanju Baba being 60-plus.
A: At heart, Iām still Baba. But when I look into the mirror itās a reality. And I do feel 60-plus. But not old. Iāve been in the film industry for so long. Yes, itās been a long innings. In the last 18 years, Iāve been fighting for my freedom and I feel the burden of the struggle now.I want to be free, Subhash. I want to walk into any consulate and get my visa. I want my passport to be with me. I want to visit any country I want. Most important of all, I want the court cases to end.
Q: I believe youāre trying to get back into shape again.
A: Do you mean my life or body? My physique⦠Well, I sometimes forget I am 49. But Iām getting there, I promise you. Hopefully by December-January, Iāll be back in shape. Iāve this personal trainer named Lawrence from Los Angeles . Heās fantastic. He makes sure Iām not overdoing it.
Q: Your life has gone through tremendous upheavals in recent times. Do you think the worst is over?
A: The best thing I did was to get rid of the undesirable people in my life. But I wish them well in life. Iāve no animosity against them - though they seem to have a lot against me. Even my enemies, I wish well. God bless them.
Q: Are your wild days over?
Absolutely over. Iām so happy, touchwood. God has been kind to me.
Q: Do you feel less stressed in life?
A: Yes. God has been great. Thereās good work coming my way. Iām happy because Iām getting substantial roles. I had to finish my backlog and start fresh. That was really important for me.
Q: Youāve now started life on a clean slateā¦
A: Iām so relieved, I canāt tell you. Iām finally able to sleep peacefully at night. I want to thank the whole industry for standing by me. I feel Iāve entered a whole new world now.Iām very happy in my marriage with Maanyata. Everything seems so right for the first time in my life. I just want to do great work and be around friends who are like my brothers.
Q: Your sisters were not happy about your marriage?
This is the happiest relationship Iāve ever been in, and Iād expect my sisters to be happy for me. Going by my past record, I donāt blame anyone for being suspicious of this relationship. My life has been a rollercoaster. For my family, especially my sisters, this was just another mistake that I was making. But I feel no one, not even the closest member of the family, has the right to interfere in my personal life.
Q: You really stood by Maanyata?
A: Thatās the least I could do. She has proved herself over and over again, though Iāve told her repeatedly that she doesnāt need to prove herself to me or to any member of my family. But sheās a very warm, giving and family-oriented person. And to her, winning over my family was very important. And she proved herself. Iām very proud of her.
Q: Wasnāt your sistersā approval of your wife and marriage important to you?
A: It was important. But donāt forget, theyāre younger than me. And I felt they had no right to disapprove of something I was doing in my own life. Whether they liked it or not they had to accept it. Anyway I love my sisters and I knew with time theyād come around. The tangles are finally being resolved.
Q: Are your sisters more accepting of Maanyata?
A: I think so. But letās seeā¦..
Q: Tell me why you think Maanayata is the right partner for you?
A: I've always wanted a woman like Maanayata. In our society, a woman has to make a lot of sacrifices for her man. And Maanyata has done that. Iām not the easiest person to handle. Maanyata is just right for me. Nowadays I just wait for the day to be over, so I can get back home to her. And I want to start a family with her as soon as possible.
Q: What was your reaction to a part of your family going against your wife publically?
A: My sister Priya has denied it. And even if she said it, I forgive her for it. With my parents gone, Iām the oldest member of our family. Like any parent forgives and supports his child, I do the same for my family. If Priya has any ill-will or anger towards me and my wife, we both forgive her. Priya is blood. Nothing can change that. However, Maanyata is Sunil Dutt and Nargisās daughter-in-law, no two ways about that. And thereās only one Mr and Mrs Dutt in Pali Hill. Thatās me and Maanyata. Girls who move into a new family after marriage should assume their new surname and all the responsibilities that come with it.
Q: Is that a message to Priya?
A: Itās a message to my sisters and all those girls who hang on their parentsā surnames. Thatās become a fashion these days. But I feel that disrespects the person theyāve married.
Q: Strong words.
A: Itās a fact, harsh as it may sound. If my wife said she wants to keep her surname the way it was before marriage, Iād have been offended.
Q: How do you manage a balancing act between your wife and sister?
A: Thereās no balancing act. My wife is my wife. Sheās the no. 1 priority in my life. Any spouse feels the same way. For Priya, her husband Owen is no. 1 priority
Q: Your sisters havenāt accepted your wife?
A: Do you have any sister? If you do, you'll know no sister gets along with the brotherās wife. But if my mother was alive she wouldāve been more than happy to accept Maanyata. Sheās a home-maker, just like my mother.
Q: So why canāt your sisters see that?
A: Thereās no feud in the family. Itās sad when Iāve to read about her family differences expressed in the press. Yes, like any family weāve our differences of opinion. My wife doesnāt speak about my family in the press, out of love and respect for my feelings. God willing, my sisters too will see things the same way.
Q: Are you at peace with yourself?
A: I was out of control as a child. And I take responsibility for what happened to me . I was in and out of jail. Today my tomorrows donāt seem to be that insecure. I sleep better.
Q: Why are you so hard to pin down?
A: Because Iām pinned down to a thousand problems. Running between my court hearings and shootings is like trying to balance two big boulders on my shoulder. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up. Iāve been fighting to prove my innocence for eleven years. Iāve been lately caught up with whatās hopefully the final lap of the case. Apparently the judgement will now have to wait until after the elections. I canāt take the agony of waiting any longer. I havenāt even been able to enjoy the success of Munnabhai MBBS .
Q: You hardly give your career the attention it deserves.
A: I know. But what do I do. Iāve been running in and out of courtrooms for so long Iāve forgotten what a normal life is like. Someday Iād like to write a book on what Iāve gone through. It will be far more interesting than any film Iāve done. Iāve been damaged so much I donāt know why I havenāt broken down. Now I just want the ordeal to end. I canāt bear to see the agony in my fatherās eyes.
Q: Do you feel you could have done much more with your career if all the legal and personal obstacles?
A: Maybe youāre right. With the legal hassles happening I canāt concentrate completely on my work. The case is constantly at the back of my mind. But I must say the courts have been truly generous. Theyāve allowed me to go on working. God willing, Iāll soon be acquitted. Then I can make a fresh start and focus completely on my work.
Q: How are things going for you personally?
A: The legal agony is far from over. My life comes to a standstill the minute I think about it. Itās been going on for years. Now, it seems the court proceedings might go on for another two years. I just want it to end, either way. Iāve to attend court once every 15 days. But Iām not allowed to leave Mumbai without the courtās consent. Even to go to Pune Iāve to get legal consent.
Q: How do you explain the fact that youāve re-built your career so strongly in spite of being an undertrial?
A: I donāt know. Itās perhaps my parentsā blessing. But itās amazing that filmmakers have so much faith in my in spite of everything. Yeah, to an extent my Dadās goodwill in the industry counts. But letās not forget, Iāve been part of this industry for twenty years. Constant interaction over so many years has helped keep up the faith.
Q: Are you still required to attend court regularly regarding your TADA case?
A: Yes, but now itās once every fifteen days. But I still have to take official permission before I travel outside the country. When I land at airports abroad and my passport shows a special permission for travelling the immigration people wonder whatās happening. They start asking me questions suspiciously. Now itās up to the Indian authorities whether they want to do something about the situation or not.
Q: Itās so strange. But thereās so much goodwill for you within the film industry while you are still an undertrial in the court of law.
A: I know. Itās really strange. Iāve been charged with trying to threaten the government of India and indulge in terrorism, and a few days back the President of India invited me to the Rashtra Bhavan in connection with Mission: Kashmir. Can you believe it?! I felt so good.
Q: Your audience thinks your roles can only be played by you?
A: Iām flattered. And Iām grateful. I donāt take my so-called stardom seriously. I just like to be who I am regardless of ups or downs. People love me the way I am. I canāt change myself to behave like a star. Iām a guy who goes completely with the flow. I hang out with my own set of friends. And they havenāt changed. Sanjay Gupta has been a close friend for years. Iāve been in almost all his films. I donāt think any of the so-called top banners have contributed to my career. I like to work with friends. I donāt care about being No.1 or No.2. I am Sanjay Dutt and I want to remain who I am. Iāve an audience and Iām thankful to them. Iām happy to be where I am.
Q: When you lost your fatherā¦.
A: I donāt feel heās gone. His death happened so suddenly, I had to grow up suddenly. I've two younger sisters and I feel like their father. Iāve no excuse to remain a kid any longer. Iāve no dad to run to with my problems. He was there to bail me out of every crisis. Sometimes when Iām sitting with my sisters it hits us that heās no more.
Q: The Bachchans are very fond of you.
A: Abhishek is like a younger brother. In spite of being Amitji and Jayajiās son, heās so down to earth. That quality will take him a long way. When his initial films failed I was the only guy saying he was the dark horse. Today Iām so proud of him. Heās got such terrific films on hand. I get angry with him when he does stupid roles.
Q: So do you.
A: Iāve been here for twenty-five years. I can afford to do stupid roles.
Q: Are you happy?
A: Very happy. It has been a 30-year innings. Things have changed so much in the industry.Iām lucky to have survived.
Q: On a personal level?
A: Oh I am very happy. My wife Maanyata really takes good care of me.
Here's wishing the enigmatic star, Sanjay Dutt, a very happy birthday!
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